It Is A Big Deal

You over sleep, you're constantly late,  you always forget to do your homework, you forget to do your house hold chores, you no longer say yes mam & no mam, yes sir & no sir, you no longer pick up behind yourself when you've made a mess, you've become absent minded, you no longer say thank you, you're often inconsiderate, you're no longer helpful around the house, you need money but you don't want to fill out a job application and work, you don't want to be responsible, you want others to think for you, you've become selfish & self-centered, everything is about me-me-me, you lie all the time, you've started wearing crazy baggie clothes, you always have your hand out, you don't communicate, you've become anti-social inside the family home, you're always complaining, you never take personal responsibility for your own actions, you're always upset because you didn't get chosen for something you didn't earn,  you think you can fake your way through life but you can't, you need to grow up but don't want too, you no longer want to be seen with the family out in pubic, you're always asking if you can spend the night over at your friends home and we don't even know them, it seems like you're always hiding something, your attitude has changed in a bad way, your level of interaction with the family & siblings has changed, your desire to do well in life has changed, we no longer know who you are, we think there's more going on with you than you're telling, you've become combative and argumentative, we got word you skipped school, we heard you started smoking & drinking, we found marijuana in your bedroom, you continue to miss your curfew, when we're at work and you're at home all you do is sleep and when we come home from work you're gone and don't come home until we've gone to bed, we didn't raise you all these year for this to be the return on our investment.

And yes, all these things are a Big Deal!

Hoop Hunter